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Ep 33: Stop Apology Calling feat Mike Basso

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Stop Apology Calling feat Mike Basso

...hi and welcome to the revenue collective podcast. My name is Casey, like Gordon, and I'm your host today. I sit down with Mike Vaso. Mike is going to chat with me about why we all need to stop apology calling. The minute Mike sent me this concept, I knew I wanted to do an episode on it because for any of us that have been in the sales profession, when you pick up that phone, sometimes you are already defeated before you start the call. And so we're going to dig into a phrase that he coined and also how he helps his team overcome that and actually even celebrate the getting hung up on. So with that, let's jump in before I do. This episode is brought to you by Quota Path Commission tracking software built by sales people for sales people. If you wake up in a cold sweat, dreading the commission's process quota path is for you. Quote. A path provides commission transparency for everyone involved while motivating reps to sell more. Plus, it's so easy to on board it'll be running before your next commission cycle. Ditch spreadsheets and formulas simplify commission tracking at quote a path dot com. Hello and welcome to the revenue Collective podcast. My name is Casey. Let Gordon and I'm your host Today. I have the opportunity to sit down with Mike Basso, the VP of global inside sales at Core Wireless. For those of you who might not be familiar, Core is a private equity owned global leader in I o T SAS platforms and manage connectivity solutions. I am so excited today to sit down with Mike because we are going to talk about how you all out there need to stop apology dialing. Mike, Welcome to the show. Thanks, Casey. My pleasure to be here. I also have to share with our audience that the shit show that was getting our technology toe work over the past 28 minutes our normal platform didn't work. We had video issues, sound issues. We experienced all the fatal flaws of 2020 conference rooms. In one experience, we did. But like all good sales reps, we persevered. We did, we did. We made it happen. You sent me a couple of topics about what we might want to talk about today. And you sent me. This one was a recent post. You did so for any of you listening. Go out and look up, Mike. On LinkedIn, you could see the post there, but to stop apology dialing. And I did two things. I laughed first of all because I knew exactly what you meant. I said, I guarantee there's sorry or the word just in there and I scrolled down and there waas Yeah, And then I felt a little bit of red nous on my face a little. A little shame, because I'm like, I'm apology dialed. I've done that. So tell me where this concept came for you. Yeah, absolutely. And and...

...we've all done it and we all still do it. I still, you know, I tried to eliminate some of these words we're going to talk about and it zits difficulty. It's right. It's always been part of our language, but it can kill you over the phone and email and other forms, but especially over the phone. So the way the concept came about is you know, I do an on boarding training still with our str teams, and part of that is really helping them overcome Call reluctance. Call. Reluctance is probably in my experience, the number one reason. But STRS fail, right? They start out probably the first month. They're new, they're doing great. This is anybody trying to do outbound prospecting, not just STRS, and then they start running into the tougher prospects. It's a very nice way of saying it. But yes, I hear you for prospects and they eventually developed call reluctance. And what happens is they start apologies dialing because they expect to get that tough prospect every time they pick up the phone. You know, it's probably only about 20% of time. Most people are somewhat accommodating right at various degrees, but some are not. And I think is people we often remember or or are most impacted by the last negative experience we had. Exactly. It sits in our mind. It's much bigger. We don't think about the success we had then the good, good calls we've had, we kind of focus on those and then they start adding up. There's a couple of things that I really try to hit on first, I want to help them identify what apology dialing is and why they apology, dial and again, the reason they apology dial is they've permanently adjusted their opening or their approach to suit the minority. Give me a couple apology Dial's entry. So hello and then what happens? Hi, Casey. I'm just calling. I was hoping maybe did I catch you at a good time? I'm just wondering, maybe hoping, hawk, and it's just it's a lot of just and hoping and essentially apologizing for the call. And I don't know about you, but I can recognize when I get that. And I think you're about to ask me something I don't want. So get. I want to get off the phone, even if it may be a really good solution. Exactly. You make a very good point. By doing that, you actually do the opposite of what you're trying to do, right? Your apology, John. You're tryingto lesson the impact of your call your essentially by using Hi, I'm just calling Just is a very weak word, and it's watering down the impact of calling whether you're doing that consciously or subconsciously, by saying just calling. You're you're apologizing for the call, right? And you're doing You're doing that in hopes...

...that the prospect that's receiving the call will be less likely to brush you off or or be being to you. But what happens in reality? By being weak, you are actually increasing the prospects defenses. You're raising their defenses instead of lowering their defenses. And you get what you get, you apology, you dial. And it's just a vicious cycle, by the way. Oh, I love that you get what you give, so you deliver a lack of confidence. You deliver an apology, you deliver that this message I'm about to tell you isn't really worth your time. The prospect immediately says It's not. I'm gonna get off the phone. Yeah, 100%. And I referenced in another earlier article, quote by Simon Black. And and he basically says, people believe in those who believe in themselves, right? And that's what it's all about. If you apology dial, you are automatically telling the prospect that you are not worthy of their time. So I'm curious when you're doing these trainings. I think it's human nature. Like you said, you know, you're a seasoned professional. I've been in this space for a while and we still fall victim to it. So and we have the successes or maybe the war stories or battle scars toe to make us a little bit more resilient to that. How do you begin Thio, coach your your SDRs and how do you What are some of those more affirmative ways of overcoming call reluctance? Yeah, that's a very good question. As a matter of fact, it started with me overcoming call reluctance. Most good teachers have experienced the hell that they teach exactly. I started in outside sales in in the early nineties, corporate outside sales in 92 I was in until 96 and I was a pretty seasoned outside sales professionals. A matter of fact, eventually was managing people in much older than me. So I had no problem making cold calls and doing presentations in person. But when I went into inside sales and I went to work for a company that moved over here from the UK, and I had two very good mentors that that we're just really great and overcoming call reluctance started with my boss telling me nobody can shoot you over the phone, and that's the worst thing that can happen right at the end of day. Nobody's shooting at you. You cannot die from cold calling, right? So it's kind of putting. He helped me put it in perspective. What's the worst thing you can happen? My ego gets bruised. Maybe not the worst thing out in the world. Thio have that happened? Especially as you're building that muscle in that capability? Exactly. But the first to further your question the way I kind of help are are STRS and our str managers because they coach to this right when they're listening to calls.

I kind of helped him visualize and I was doing this for a long time and I kind of allude how this kind of went to that first swing state. And I always said, Think about 10 people that you call two are going to be very tough. They're gonna be jerks, right? They're assholes. Essentially. Yeah, call it like it is. We all experienced it exactly right. And by the way, they probably left their house, kick their dogs, slammed the door back to work and yelled at every rep that called them before you There, asshole. Nous is not about you. It's about things that are far beyond that Five second call. Exactly. So for them to understand them. It xyz them, not the SDR, right? Its's you. It's not me. It goes a long way. But I said on the other end of that spectrum, of those 10, there's 20% that will talk to anybody. Know regardless how bad that you are. And especially in the beginning, those the ones you got right as the new str you're gonna get those easy 20%. Your job is an str is to get better with each tile and move those six in the middle. Those six in the middle in the beginning are gonna swing negative because you knew. But eventually, if you can overcome your fear and not developed call reluctance and understand what ISS right, you get those six to swing the other way based on how confident you are, how well you present, How will you ask questions and how well you lower the prospects defenses instead of raising them? I really love the fact that you you identified the outliers for those that your training because what I find a sales professionals, marketing professionals, anybody that's in this world tracking performance optimization numbers are such a driving factor for how we like to operate, and when you look at, you know, just to use those round numbers. If you look at 10 calls, it's very easy for any of us to say I need to be perfect at the 10 and for you to say Hey, four of them, they're gonna be way too nice and not your customer and way too mean and not your customer. Just take those off. Your job as a professional is those six, and that becomes much more attainable in any world that we're in. And I love what you said is at the beginning. They will swing negative, and over time your goal is to move them into neutral and then positive. It's this mindset of just a little bit better. It doesn't have to be perfect. You don't need to have all six. But if you could turn one of those six positive two of those six positive and I'm curious, how do you create an environment of accepting that the beginning part? Those six. They're gonna be not positive. How do you create that? That tolerance and and space to grow? That's a very good question, and it really starts with being okay to fail, right? I've done different things and different things over the years. Like I did a dare to fail contests. We actually believe it or not. Prior to...

...covert, we had a couple of contests where they could win. My scratch made brownies. I do scratch, made baking right. They could win those and it would be a month long contest and it's who got hung up on the most. That's how you want the context. And it was always We ran this two or three times, and the person that got hung up on the most was actually the most successful is well, as far as leads, they generated it. We took this stigma out of getting hung up, and the other thing I do is when we're in the office prick over, we would go into the boardroom and do group calling, right? And I would go first a SVP. I would still go first and then the managers would go next and I would get hung up on when I got a tough 20%. So I showed it was okay. You get hung up on right, you get rejected because I've been selling over the phone for a long time, but those 20% are still. They still hung up on me or they still beat me right again because it's not about you. It's not about your skill or capability. It's about their own things. They're coming into that engagement with exactly being hung up on or getting rejected, and it should not be a stigma. It is. It is. It's an opportunity to grow. And I can't remember who I quoted recently on the stop apology, darling, So they'll have to look it up to see who that person is. But it was a quote that really summed all this up. It was the purpose of life is to be defeated by greater and greater things. Oh, yes, and I can't remember. I apologize. I can't remember who, exactly the quote waas, but it's something I preach. The way you get better. All right is you get you get better with each style by going beyond your current capabilities just a little bit every day and being willing to fail. I think that that Zatz really, really powerful, especially you creating an environment where VP goes first and look it still can be really challenging. Ah, couple of things I'm curious about and this just comes to mind. Do you notice a generational difference in younger talent with call reluctance, or do you see it consistently across the board consistently? E. Believe it or not, it's consistent across the board. That is interesting to me, because I know that you know, I'm just thinking generationally, especially some of those you know, more entry level into the business world that maybe didn't grow up answering phones or doing that kind of dialing. And so I think it's very interesting that it's not about the past experiences, but rather it is about that emotional triggered response of the negative prospect that drives that behavior. It's not necessarily skill or where they're coming from. Absolutely as a matter of fact, when when you put it, when you put somebody new on the phone to make cold calls right, you put them through some initial training. They don't start out. Apology dialing MM developed over time. Some develop a quicker depending on a lot of factors, right,...

...but it it zits because they run into those tough 20% prospects, and then they just get. They get worse with each style and they develop it. But there's ways we can help get them out of that. Yeah, I want to talk about that. Because so as a manager, you have your your SDRs come in or as a team lead, they're they're doing good. And then is it that you start noticing? What are some of the indicators that this is happening in your team? Because you're not on every call, right? You're not in every meeting, but is it through check ins that they start thio surface this to you? Is it through performance when you say, Hey, we're not hitting our number of our activity metrics. We're not seeing results come in the back end. Where do you start seeing those early indicators that I got to get ahead of this? Actually, we expect it way Expected A process? Yeah, We expected about 30 days in some. Hit it sooner. Some hit it later. Very few don't hit it. We call it a dip. Okay. Death. Gordon's book. The depth, I think, is very fitting here. Yeah, for that. And the dip basically says when they're new, they're excited. But once reality sets in, they get into dip. Some don't come out right. Even as good as we train. Not everybody comes out of the depth, but eventually everybody does so expected. And obviously I don't listen to as many calls as I did in the past, right? I don't manage the STS direct anymore. When I first came to court, I built the team and did manage it for a while because I wanted to build it. But now I've got four SCR managers and they listen to calls all day long, right? They spend a lot of really engaged in Yeah, and we use. We use outreach and, you know, they tagged the calls, is not interested, right? Or they tag it in a certain way and they could go and specifically listen to those. But there's a lot of telling signs, but we're on the look for it because we know what's gonna happen. And then our job is to get them out of that depth and away from call reluctance. Because if you don't identify call reluctance early, it becomes where it can't be repaired, right? I would imagine that call reluctance can very quickly that dip can become a plummet into poor performance. And then it may be that that's not something that we can coach out of or it's not something that we can sustain on the team. And so are there any of those I don't want to say Watch out. But any of those things for people listening that either maybe you know, a rep doing that Diallo's well or team leads that that they could be proactive around. Well, it's just it's seeing that dip in the leads they're generating, right? Those when we see that we know most likely based on our experience, that there's a good chance that that's happening and then it's it's listening. It's really just listening to the calls, whether you know, through through outreach or whether they're in the office back in the day, right? It...

...almost seems back in the day, back in the day, totally back in the day. But, you know, I can hear it while I'm walking through. Back in the day when we were in the office, I could hear it walking through the department right and knew where it was going. But, yeah, how do you create a culture where I almost. I'm imagining a world in which your fellow reps start to coach each other. Hey, I heard you apology dialing and almost that you create. You name it so that it It is something that is not your doing something bad. But it's almost this peer level coaching. I'm curious. Have you? Have you been able to see any of that? I have. And unfortunately, I just really coined the term apology that I recognized that I'm sure that you've had other other terms or other you know, accuse of this. Yeah, just and hoping they'll say, You know that. As a matter of fact, I think at one point they had they had a jar you throw a quarter in and then they brought. Somebody buys lunch, right order. Every time you throw, you say just. But I'll say it's more than just just a za faras. That's it's the whole persona, and it's not, by the way, it's more than words can say. It's more than just the words. It's the tone ality Aziz well, its's. They're exuding the lack of self confidence in the call, and that has more impact in some cases than the words I'm gonna put you on the spot, because why not this podcast? I'm a host, and I get to do fun things. Can you give me an example of a really solid cold call? Like, can you give me, like, an intro tee up? Because I It has been so long since I've done true cold calling. And I'm, like, dying to hear what the How do I avoid just questioning and hoping and apologizing? Yes, you can. Actually, you can absolutely put me on the spot. I am a little rescue because we're not in the office, so I haven't done the group calling in a while. But we do have a short 20. I'm very I am very much a proponent of structured openings. Quick, 22nd openings. Otherwise, your reps, they're gonna wing it and they're gonna be 30 seconds long, full of apologies and full of everything else. Right? So it's really it's our openings air literally 20 seconds long, and they have six key elements in them. We don't have time to go through all of them, but let me see if I can, actually, because three other thing is we want our reps toe haven't internalized and we want them to have it come out naturally, right? It has to feel authentic Thio whoever it iss exactly. So yeah. All right. Good morning, Casey, this is Mike with Cora Wireless. I was calling to learn about your connected i o t solutions to see if core would be a good fit or not. Are you the right person to speak with? So you get right to it. One 100% and they go, Yeah, I'm the right person. Speak. Go. Perfect. We do a short credibility statement. Hi, I'm Mike. With core wireless, we met. We help simplify the complexities I ot by enabling management of multiple carriers through one platform. Casey is...

...your GPS device. Does it use currently use cellular connectivity? Sure. Yes. And then we're onto our first. Because by the way, if that's a yes, great, we could move forward. If it's a no, they don't have a new need for our service. Right. Oh, I love this. Okay, So you're saying keep it short and sweet. 20 seconds. You're starting? Not Yes. You introduce yourself because it's weird if you don't, But you very quickly get to say are you the right person. So at each step, you're saving your reps. Hopefully time. Yes or no, I'm not. Yes, Let's talk. No. Can you direct me? And then the second piece of it is Do you have this need? Yes, I've already gotten a positive indicator or no. And I would imagine the difficult quote unquote customers that we talked about before. They're probably going to cut you off much earlier than before. You even get into some of those questions they are. And if the call goes correctly, we've done our homework. We're gonna get to Yes is Yes. I'm the right person. And yes, our device regarded cellular connectivity. Right? And from there, it's just a syriza off conversation, right? Tell me more about your device, Right? But the way we structure our opens is if you heard I'm calling to learn, right? Not self. Learn calling toe. Learn to see if core would be a good fit or not. And we actually emphasize the or not give them the out. Yeah, yes, but we're not pausing there. Okay? We're really not We're not giving them that. We're letting letting them know that we care whether or not. There's a fit here, and we're just not gonna call and start pitching. If there's not, we're not bringing value. If we're not a fit, we're not gonna waste your time Three minutes in finally asking that question. Yeah, I think that it's interesting of what I'm hearing. I mean the confidence level. It's almost that you want to bring your SDRs to become peers, not selling into. But hey, we have value to and we need to know if you are a fit for us similarly, and I think we all know this innately, but it is so hard to practice it is, and you hit on it. You know, one of the things that I was preaches prep practice and internalized. You have to know I was a little rusty. But when we're in the office and we're doing the group call is I know that inside now in our reps today know that inside it out and they don't add words, they don't take away words. It's short, it's crisp, it works, and by the way, they could suggest changes to it after 60 days after they've proven they can use it. Okay, so that's Hewitt's always something that could be optimized made better. But you have to have a baseline in order to start optimizing it. Exactly. And we, by the way, we move forward as a group. So group decides, is that because every word counts? Yeah, every word, every pause, right? If you put a pause in the wrong place and you're not ready for...

...the prospect to take control, you've doomed yourself, right? So it's just not about the words. It's positive, and it's everything. There's two things I really like about what we're talking about here. One the group mandated decision making. I think that creates such, I have found, creates such an accountability to each other that if I'm gonna be suggesting something, it's not just to make Casey's life easier. We all have to agree that it's gonna make things better. And then the second piece of it is there is such a science. I mean, like you said 20 seconds. The pause matters, and I think that I think season sales professionals know that about the science. But I think a lot of people that are coming into it think it's about this, this cachet being the smooth talker. ITT's some of that. And you don't realize that that air of confidence yes, has to come across, but it is so precise. Yeah, by the way, you hit on something I'm gonna be reading on about and I talk about Don't be the cool guy on these calls, right? It's It's I don't even like the word. Hey, I want you. You don't know who you're talking to yet, Right? And on our CRS call it very high. Executive level CEO, CFO CTO VP of engineering, right. You can't. You can't approach them now. They may eventually be that person. You may be a favor and later, but you gotta earn it right. You gotta earn it. So don't call them up and say Hey, Hey, bro. Hey, Button, don't be cool guy. Right? Leave Cool guy at home. Yeah, and and maybe cool guy can show up later in the conversation, but you've got to be You've got a mirror and match and you don't know what the personality is until they start talking. Yeah, Yeah, I love that. I want to hear What about cold? Calling outside sales and I just really being that having to do the dialing. What about that? Do you like for for sales people? Well, the S e r position. I think some people love it. Some people hate it, but it let's those who specializes in it, do it and those who don't not do it right. Your average enterprise rep who hasn't called called in 20 years, shouldn't in a lot of cases, unless they've gone through some training, they're not very good at it. Plus, you're paying them to do other things, right? Hey, and not generate leads. But if you are somebody that is a business fellow manager and you have to do your own prospecting, you better be good at it, right? I always say half the battle is getting the prospect on the phone and properly engaged and passed the first minute or so. That's half the battle. You're halfway home, if not more. I mean, it is so like that impression and that ability to hook them. I imagine if you correlated has...

...such a higher propensity Thio to carry through versus, you know, having to disconnect in the first minute. Well, it does, and you know, I was that sort of that business development up early in my career, I generate my own leads. You know, we didn't have S E. R s and I learned how to call at a high executive level Early in my career, I was calling CMOS. They weren't called CMOS back then I'm getting. They were evey piece of marketing and senior vice president of marketing, and I was calling Fortune 500 companies, UPS, FedEx, Rolex, you name it and talking with somebody who knew 100 times more about marketing than I did. And I had to be on my game, and it worked. No, I started my inside sales career straight commission, tough talk. But I made a lot of money, and I eventually started my own business and was successful by being able to pick up the phone and and engage anyone, anywhere, anytime where others couldn't. I think that's a really interesting piece of all the roles that you could have across your sales journey. I think the ability Thio really hone that SDR, too, at home that to your point, pick up the phone, engage someone you know, capture their interest may have the greatest long term r O I or versatile R O I, depending on whatever you want to dio 100% is a matter of fact case. You bring up a great point when we hire STRS, we tell them the greatest thing you're going to get from being coming in str with us is not your paycheck. Yeah, you're going to get the foundation of sales success and that's the ability to pick up the phone and be that rare salesperson that people are willing to engage. And when you become an enterprise rep one day and move throughout your career, you will be one of those that know how to do it if need be. And a matter of fact, we almost exclusively promote from our str teams are are my other positions and are inside department. We have business development managers and account developed managers Just like most tech companies, they come from our STRS They're starting to filter some of those They're now starting to filter our to our outside team and you know, we use RCR team for two purposes, generate leads and provide talent to the rest of civil. I love that early on in my career, the first sales role I had I had a CEO, small firm. He required that I made 200 cold calls a day. No, just no God, no. I would probably would have been there for day two. But that was my I think I had about a two week period where I had to call I to build out what was an offering or something. I could dio It was, you know, the comfortable ity of being hung up on the ability that if...

...you do have someone engaged, how can you provide value quickly? And it was the frequency and repetition of those 200 calls that I learned probably mawr during that period of time about so many things. One what I liked and didn't like from a talent, perspective or a career path thing. The ability to quickly find what that person cared about. The ability to reiterate messaging and quickly do those 80 s in your mind. My tone here it really resonated this person. I had thio like you were saying that hey versus high. What are the things that resonated my confidence, energy, all of those things, and doing it at scale. You begin to see those patterns and it was It was hell wasn't my favorite thing I've ever done. But I agree with you wholeheartedly that demonstrating to myself and to the employer that I could do that set me on a path in which there's very few things that truly scare me away. Yeah, absolutely. And another point I think you surface is we hire a lot of people that have marking degrees. I love marketing, I've done marketing. And we also say, you know, whether you stay in sales or you gonna marketing. Having that background as an SDR can actually help make you eventually a better marketer completely. It's the closest way in the most visceral customer reaction you're going to get, and you begin to understand that you hone that. And I think empathy for your sales counterparts in marketing right is a lot of times marketing is come on sales go sell the thing. But to truly understand the complexity of being on that front line, some of the I mean it could be super demoralizing. It could be super, you know, challenging to maintain that momentum and to recognize that Ah, great messages so much of what sets that sales person up for success. I think it drives a shared experience. It does. And the other thing I actually suggesting we've done this a couple of times. When we do, the group calling is in the office. Bet she invite marketing. Mm. There in the room. Love that. And they enjoy it. They get a lot of insight live. Do you ever get resistance from your team on group calling? I'm thinking about myself. A small audience could make me really nervous. Far more than thousands of people. No. And again, we haven't done it since Cove. In, of course, already doing it prior that about six or seven years I've been doing it. I did it. My current position, of course. And I did it that my last position in SIA and not a lot of pushback, because I think what helps is I'm willing to go first for the 1st 45 minutes. Yeah, that's power about three hours, and that that helps and it puts everybody it is, and we have a good time. I mean, a lot of times way actually get in trouble because we're so loud and obnoxious and way have a good time with it. I had a couple of things that I've also taken away from today is allow the process to play out...

...the dip. So you, you know, it's It's not how do we stop the dip? But it's how do we recognize it helped coach through it and quickly get through it. It's not that we get rid of the dip altogether because you understand that's gonna happen. That's human nature. And the second piece is you talked a lot about one making yourself a part of the process. Don't sit up it, you know, up top and put you point your finger down of the things to dio and bringing a tremendous amount of fun to it that we're in this right. Prospecting and sales in general can be very challenging, but we each other can create a team of fun that help us overcome those two customers that aren't the easiest to sell to will say exactly, you know, instead of when an SDR gets off the phone and they've been hung up on instead of letting it affect them, they have a laugh about it with the other with the other SDRs right. They've learned that it's because they know everybody else is going through it as well. Yeah, it's demystifying it, and it's humanizing it exactly. Mike, I have enjoyed today's conversation. I feel like, you know, I get to talk to a lot of people on here, and you gave such specific examples and you were willing to be vulnerable. So thank you for real time pitching me here. I know. I put a lot. Um, yeah, yeah. Thank you so much. This was wonderful. Anything else you wanna leave our audience with? Yeah, Casey, First of all, it's been a pleasure. Thanks for having me on. And, you know, I think just leaving whether you're in str your sales leader, like you said, have fun understanding the reasons why behind all of it and just be willing to fail. And because failure will actually make you better. Yeah, the more failure you have that means that you're closer, Thio. Improving those six now are less less queuing. Negative and they're beginning toe Make that turn into positive. Exactly. Yeah. All right, Mike, this was a blast. My name is Casey. Like Gordon, I'm your host and this is the revenue collective podcast. We'll see you next time. All right. That is a wrap on another revenue collective episode. My name is Casey. Like Gordon and I'm your host. This episode was brought to you by quota path. Quota path is the first radically transparent and end compensation solution from sales reps to finance. Get started for free at quote a path dot com. And your next commission cycle could be totally automated. We'll see you next time.

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